Chasing Daylight |  | Author: Gene O'Kelly
Publisher: McGraw Hill Text
Category: eBooks
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Rating:  81 reviews
Format: Kindle Book
Media: Kindle Edition
Edition: 1
Pages: 160
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Dewey Decimal Number: 155.937
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As CEO at accounting giant KPMG, Eugene O'Kelly was so immersed in his job that over the course of a decade, he managed to have lunch with his wife on weekdays just twice. His travel schedule was set 18 months out. Once, he was so obsessed with impressing a potential client that he tracked down the man's travel schedule, booked the seat next to him on a flight, schmoozed the guy all the way to Australia, landed the account, and flew immediately back to Manhattan. His Type-A ways vanished when, at age 53, a top neurosurgeon in New York told him he had late-stage brain cancer. "His eyes told me I would die soon. It was late spring. I had seen my last autumn in New York."
There are no TV-movie-style miracle treatments or extensions of his life expectancy; he's told he has maybe 3 months, and he doesn't spend any energy hoping for a cure. True to his CEO style, he creates goals for himself, lists of friends to visit for the last time; he meditates; he tries to create as many "perfect Moments" that he can, during dinner or phone conversations with friends, and realized how rare those moments of connection and joy were in his "previous life." Chasing Daylight is as much a self-criticism of his job-before-family ways as it is a meditation on time and a transition to a tranquil, spiritual state utterly foreign to him as a CEO. O'Kelly's absolutely more fulfilled by the soul work that he finishes in 100 days, compared to his 30 years of corporate promotions and accolades, and he utterly convinces readers to ponder their own situation, whether "in the gloaming" of life as he was or not. --Erica Jorgensen
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Must the end of life be the worst part? Can it be made the best? At 53, Eugene O'Kelly was in the full swing of life. Chairman and CEO of KPMG, one of the largest U.S. accounting firms, he enjoyed a successful career and drew happiness from his wife, children, family, and close friends. He was thinking ahead: the next business trip, the firm's continued success, weekend plans with his wife, his daughter's first day of eighth grade. Then in May 2005, Gene was diagnosed with late-stage brain cancer and given three to six months to live. Just like that. Now a growing darkness was absorbing the bright future he had seen for himself. He would have to change his plans, quickly, and capture what he could of his last diminishing days. Chasing Daylight is the account of his final journey. Starting from the time of his diagnosis and concluded upon his death less than four months later, this book is his unforgettable story. With startling intimacy, it chronicles the dissolution of Eugene O'Kelly's life and his gradual awakening to a more profound understanding. Interweaving unsettling details of his battle with cancer with his moment-to-moment reflections on life and death, love and success, spirituality and the search for meaning, it provides a testament to the power of the human spirit and a compelling message about how to live a more vivid, balanced, and meaningful life. Inspiring, passionate, deeply insightful, Chasing Daylight is a remarkable man's poignant farewell to a beloved world.
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 A memoir on life and death January 19, 2006
M. Norris
107 out of 113 found this review helpful
I was fortunate enough to be handed a copy of this book by the publisher last week, when the James Frey/A Million Little Pieces debacle was coming to a head. It was fantastic to read Chasing Daylight, a real, un-sexed up memoir that deserves the attention that James Frey's books don't.
Most of the book was written by Gene O'Kelly after May 2005, when he was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer(the last chapter was written by his wife after O'Kelly died). He wrote about how he managed his final months alive; saying final goodbyes to friends and family, rememebering "perfect moments" he has before the diagnosis and experiencing many more new ones after. Although the book really, REALLY made me wonder if I wanted to know how and when I was going to die, it made me think even more of how one should live.
The story isn't about someone who threw his life away with addiction and had run-ins - real and imagined - with the law. O'Kelly was an accountant, most recently head of KPMG, with a wife and two children. He was mostly an ordinary person we can relate to who ran his life at 100 miles an hour - and was forced to step on the brakes when he got his diagnosis. Among other things, the book has a great message to all of us who lead our lives at that speed that we should slow it down, accept certain things the way they are, and value moments with family above time at work.
I also found the writing extraordinarily real, and at times had trouble concentrating because I found myself wondering what O'Kelly was thinking when he was writing it, knowing that he had seen his "last autumn in New York" and he knew how his memoir was going to end. Facing certain death with his level of peace was admirable.
This is a great book.
A Must Read January 26, 2006
Amanda (New Jersey)
22 out of 23 found this review helpful
I read Gene's book in one sitting, and will surely read it again soon. It's amazing how this man could possibly face his own mortality with courage, strength, and a new-found appreciation for the little things in life. I laughed (or at least chuckled at his ever-present sense of humor), I cried, and I thoroughly enjoyed every page. This book had a profound impact on me. It has left me with many questions - about my own life and how I live each day. I am going to try to live for those "perfect moments." Thanks for sharing your vision with us Gene.
-AA
A Beautifully Written Account of the Sunset of One's Life July 22, 2006
Neilisa (Tulsa, OK United States)
12 out of 12 found this review helpful
Chasing Daylight is a profound chronicle of Eugene O'Kelly's final 100 days of his life. He was diagnosed with late stage glioblastoma multiforme, which is terminal brain cancer. Within a week, he stepped down as CEO of KPMG and began to acclimate himself and his loved ones on how best to deal with this terminal disease.
As someone who is in the habit of setting goals and approaching every problem from a logical perspective, Gene O'Kelly began to make plans on what to do for the final three months of his life: He trains himself to live in the present, to find those perfect moments that crystallize the beauty of life, and to say his farewells to his friends, family and loved ones. In following his plan, and to his surprise, he attains what he's been after all along: peace.
There are few tragedies in life that can alter your perspective so profoundly, and one of those is being diagnosed with a terminal disease. It's like the blinders fall off and what seemed so important no longer matters, and what you always took for granted you now ardently embrace.
Gene and Corinne O'Kelly capture that so beautifully in Chasing Daylight. Gene's struggle with coming to terms with his death is heart wrenching, and Corinne's account of his final hours will bring tears to your eyes. Despite the short time he had to say good-bye to his loved ones, he did accomplish what he set out to do and then exited this life as a gentleman would: with perfect grace.
An Executive's Guide to Dying May 24, 2006
karl b. (Fraser Valley, BC, Canada)
20 out of 23 found this review helpful
Gene O'Kelly was the CEO of KPMG, an international accounting and consulting firm, with $4 billion in revenues and 20,000 employees. In May 2005, at age 53, he was told that be had a brain tumour and had less than 6 months to live. He died in September of that year. He decided to narrate the story of his final months, in part as a personal catharsis, and as a reference for others.
I've seen some criticism of this book in terms of its breezy, somewhat detached style. But this denies the fact that death is as personal as life. It corresponds to temperament and circumstances.
O'Kelly was an accountant's accountant, a driven executive. He was not someone given to introspection. He lived an affluent, social and active lifestyle. It shows in this book. It has the accountant's traits of method, detail, thoroughness.. the executive's traits of objectivity, organization, compartmentalization.
He was not a particularly religious man. The religious aspects account for less than a page of the total book. He was Irish Catholic, but worshiped, better stated meditated, at a nearby Episcopalian Church, practiced TM, had a dinner and a private Mass with Cardinal Egan in his final weeks. The death sentence produced no profound search for spiritual enlightenment or reconciliation with God. The nebulous term 'consciousness' appears as the objective. This was just part of the routine of his life, and played in a minor key.
The book focuses on his personal approach to dying. Not surprisingly this involved a systematic, targetted, well ordered closing out of his affairs and relationships in this world. Some people might find this all too, well, procedural. It can read like a consultant's report on how to spend a suddenly abbreviated life, giving due respect to the conventions of our times. But it is undeniably honest to the man O'Kelly was.
I've heard that being told you have a terminal illness, involves stages of denial, anger, pleading, depression and finally acceptance. This process plays little part in this book, although I've no doubt it was part of the experience, perhaps only subliminally acknowledged. We skip really to the final stage, acceptance, and how to handle it.
Many people might have trouble relating, might even resent, someone whose final time is spent commiserating with friends about golfing in Scotland, skiing in Aspen, dining at L'Impero, traveling to his vacation home on Lake Tahoe, or European haunts, and relaxing in a NY apartment overlooking the East River. Death for some likely involves excruciating worry and guilt about the financial welfare of loved ones, the cost of illness, and contains none of the opportunity for distractions and material fulfillment that O'Kelly had.
That said, terminal illness compresses life, it does not change it. There are few regrets here, except the usual lament about spending too much time at the office. There are no recriminations. This book provides value in a realization that a system, some detachment, a formalization, has to impose itself on this situation, to make it palatable. That we need the comfort of family and friends, and that their emotional well being is inextricably linked with our own in times like these. This gives insight, if not a personal blueprint, to living your death the way one has led, or atleast should have led, one's life.
I was blessed... July 2, 2006
Ken Ebert (Ballston Lake, NY United States)
8 out of 8 found this review helpful
"Chasing Daylight" begins with the words "I was blessed..." and that is how I feel about my discovery of this wonderful book. It seems serendipitous that I found "Chasing Daylight". As I read the synopsis, I was transported back 10 years to the day my 48 year old brother Wayne was given the same sentence that Eugene O'Kelly was given. Wayne lived 132 days from that moment and his experience became even more poignant as I read Mr. O'Kelly and his wife's words. I read the book in two nights and its lessons hit home for me in many ways, one of which is in my role as an educator. I m looking to using such lessons as "managing energy" rather than time and "being open to surprises", among others with students and my work with other teachers. In my family life, I plan to not only make but to keep dates and try to live in the present. Finally, as I read, I also felt a well of compassion poring forth to the O'Kelly andd KPMG families for their loss, but immeasurable gratitude for what Mr.O'Kelly and his family shared in those last 100 days. Thank you to them.
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